When couples divorce, emotions run wild and minds are preoccupied with many questions. Where will I live? How will I manage my finances? Who will keep what? How will we parent our children? How will I be able to cope with this chaos? Etc. Sometimes, as a parent, you are not aware of the questions your children have on their minds. You may need so much energy to cope with the changes you are going through, both emotional and material, that you may forget to explain to your children what is going to change for them and how this might make them feel.