If you are considering divorce, you may feel like you are trying to keep your head above water. Are you constantly struggling to prevent yourself from going under? Do you lay awake in bed, confused and angry, suffering cold sweats, palpitations and racing thoughts, while the agonizing question of “to stay or not to stay” looms like a dark cloud? Needless to say, this is beyond stressful. Of course, the toxic lining of those dark clouds is the potentially devastating effect of divorce on the children who often suffer the emotional brunt of such marital strife.